I'm out as a slasher. I tell everyone straight away that I write gay porn. I give them my lj address. I tell them to read my stories. Guys, girls, whoever. The only people who don't know are the people I work with and my family (for obvious reasons). I might tell my mum later on this year when she comes over to visit me, but never my father. He really doesn't need to know what a filthy mind his daughter has.